Upcoming Events
The Madame Loves to Host
Check out our calendar for the exciting events that are happening all month long. Looking to plan your own event at Madame X? Reach out to our General Manager, Alex, at (757) 64 5 - 6979
DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
A Night with Sonic: An Intimate Show Part II
A Night with Sonic: An Intimate Show
Sonic invites you to share an intimate evening with her and the Star Players as they serenade you with a stripped back acoustic set. Incorporating some fan favorites and previewing some never heard live renditions of newly released records and maybe even some unreleased material! The night will be vulnerable, raw and immersive. Sonic hopes to create a safe space to be received where she can share her truth, her healing and her journey back to self and the stage after all of these years.
Sounds curated before and after Sonic's set by DJ Brown Jewel so come ready to grab a libation and catch a vibe!
Sonic will be displaying her unique handmade body adornment inspired by Mother Earth herself, Elements by Sonic! So come ready to shop one of a kind designs if you feel ever so inclined. (Limited edition merch will also be available)
Cocktails & non - alcoholic bevarages will be available for purchase at the bar.
*NO ONE TURNED AWAY FOR LACK OF FUNDS (Please personally reach out to Sonic or management so we can be sure you're taken care of)
Play Party 101
Curious about navigating play party spaces?
Unsure of what to wear or how to engage with others? If so, this workshop is for you.
Presented by Hit me Up organizer, Tide, we'll break down the basics of sex parties, sharing real-life examples and stories to help you feel more confident and prepared. This is a great opportunity to get your questions answered in a welcoming environment. After the workshop, join us for a panel discussion featuring a diverse group of individuals involved in or attending various play spaces in New York City, including those that are LGBTQ+ and BIPOC inclusive.
Plan to meet at Madame X at 6pm for pre-workshop drinks. Workshop runs from 6:30-8:30. Drinks and socializing at the bar afterwards.
About the presenter: Tide is the venue manager for the Hit Me Up loft space in New York City. She has been helping throw play parties with Hit Me Up and other groups in NYC pretty much every weekend for the past 3 years. Her background is in marine biology so frankly she's just as confused as you are as to how she ended up in this position.
Panel Discussion Facilitated by Nikita
If you have any questions, please reach out to Nikita (she/her) #7324 on discord
DJ L Trendz
On the decks until 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
Dancer's Paradise
Welcome to Dancer’s Paradise!
Come join Lady Diamond and The Twins for a night filled with Dancehall Reggae Music, Amazing Dancers, Great Vibes, Magnum Tonic Wine and 4-20 Drink Specials! Whether you're a seasoned dancer or just looking to hold a vibe in our Friendly Backyard... This is the place to be!
Our talented DJs will be playing Dancehall Reggae, from Back to Basics, to the newest tracks of 2025. Not to mention Live Performances from the Hottest up and coming Artists! So grab your friends and get ready for back to back hits!!
Come join us and dance the night away in a vibrant and energetic setting, as well as relax in the backyard with outdoor seating. We're bringing Brooklyn Vibes to Downtown Manhattan once again! VTBA.. It's going to be a night to remember !!!
Early bird tix available for a limited time only.
Sattama Reggae Sundays
Wind it out with DJ Junior Keys and Lady Tia for our famous Sattama Reggae Sundays.
DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
DJ L Trendz
On the decks until 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.
DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
DJ L Trendz
On the decks until 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.
DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
Sattama Reggae Sundays
Wind it out with DJ Junior Keys and Lady Tia for our famous Sattama Reggae Sundays.
DJ LIVENDIRECT
In the booth until 3:00am
Come witness the untouchable DJ duo LIVENDIRECT spin the night away in our DJ booth. Composed of DJs @itsmezmure and @keithturnerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr you don’t want to miss this unparalleled energy on a Saturday night.
DJ L Trendz
Groovin’ until 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.
Electric Moon: Intimacy
Enter a world of shadows, desire, and decadence. Electric Moon: Intimacy is an immersive burlesque experience that delves into the darker corners of fantasy and fascination. Beneath the seductive allure lies a realm where the forbidden comes to life, and every movement is laced with mystery, power, and a touch of danger.
Each performer embraces the darker side of desire, weaving stories that blur the line between temptation and terror, pleasure and pain. With sensuality that lingers and acts that captivate, Electric Moon: Intimacy is not just a performance—it's an intoxicating journey into the unknown.
Prepare to be spellbound as we invite you to embrace your own dark desires in a show where nothing is quite as it seems, and every glance hides a secret.
Hosted by:
CKAY
Celestial Vixens:
Amber Lyonness
Dani de Leche
Haze L. Nutt
Nirah
Priya Roy
Solo performances by:
Messica Rabbit
Tickets: $25 in advanced
$30 at the door
*bring cash tips for our performers!*
Dress code: sexy, dark and glamorous
DJ LIVENDIRECT
In the booth until 3:00am
Come witness the untouchable DJ duo LIVENDIRECT spin the night away in our DJ booth. Composed of DJs @itsmezmure and @keithturnerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr you don’t want to miss this unparalleled energy on a Saturday night.
DJ LIVENDIRECT
In the booth until 3:00am
Come witness the untouchable DJ duo LIVENDIRECT spin the night away in our DJ booth. Composed of DJs @itsmezmure and @keithturnerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr you don’t want to miss this unparalleled energy on a Saturday night.
Storytelling Night
Storytelling Night
Join us for a night of storytelling to celebrate the chaos, grit, and magic of New York City—the late nights, the wild stories, and the people who can’t help but fall for it and call it home.
Got your own New York love letter? Jump on stage during our open mic segment! Three lucky volunteers will get the chance to share their wildest NYC stories.
Silver Fox Matchbox Singles Party
Tired of endless swiping and ready to meet your person IRL?
The Silver Fox Matchbox Singles Party 🎉 is for smart, sexy single professionals in their late 30s to late 50s - In Real Life - and get matched with your best match at the party!
Enjoy a fun, interesting, and sexy night out in NYC
An equal mix of single men and women for curated matchmaking
Makes a great “How we met” story
Move beyond small talk with questions and prompts based on real compatibility
Get matched with someone compatible who truly complements you
What is a Matchbox Party?
When you arrive at this unique event, you'll fill out a brief survey, and by the end of the night, you’ll be matched with your ideal partner based on core values, as well as other long-term compatibility factors.
Space is limited, so don't wait to get your ticket!
*Walk - ins are unavailable.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
DJ L Trendz
Gettin’ down until 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.
Sattama Reggae Sundays
Wind it out with DJ Junior Keys and Lady Tia for our famous Sattama Reggae Sundays.
A Night with Sonic: An Intimate Show
A Night with Sonic: An Intimate Show
After almost 5 years off of the stage, Sonic invites you to share an intimate evening with her and the star players as they serenade you with a stripped back acoustic set. Incorporating some fan favorites and previewing some never heard live renditions of newly released records & maybe even some unreleased material! The night will be vulnerable, raw and immersive. Sonic hopes to create a safe space to be received where she can share her truth, her healing and her journey back to self and the stage after all of these years.
Sonic will be displaying her unique handmade body adornment inspired by Mother Earth herself, Elements by Sonic! So come ready to shop one of a kind designs if you feel ever so inclined. (Limited edition merch will also be available)
Cocktails & non - alcoholic bevarages will be available for purchase at the bar.
*NO ONE TURNED AWAY FOR LACK OF FUNDS (Please personally reach out to Sonic or management so we can be sure you're taken care of)
DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
DJ L Trendz
Spinning until 3:00 am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.
CLOSED: Private Event
We will be closed this evening for a private event. We will see you tomorrow, Friday, March 7, 2025 at 6:00pm!
CLOSED
Our new bartop is finally in! We’ll be closed from Sunday, March 2, 2025 through Wednesday, March 5th while we install all of her sexy new curves for cocktail making. We’ll see you on March 6th with a whole new bar to show off!
DJ LIVENDIRECT
In the booth until 3:00am
Come witness the untouchable DJ duo LIVENDIRECT spin the night away in our DJ booth. Composed of DJs @itsmezmure and @keithturnerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr you don’t want to miss this unparalleled energy on a Saturday night.
DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.
Stage Time: Single/Mingle
A traffic light party🚦for New Yorkers looking to make their connection.
Stage Time is partnering with a professional matchmaker & dating expert, with live entertainment and exceptionally curated ways to break you out of your shell and meet the people you’ve been pining after.
Select your colored button on arrival:
Green🟢: Go. Single and looking for a connection. Open to a new dynamic with space and no strings.
Yellow🟡: STRINGS! Currently have other dynamics romantically, but still in the market for a new connection. More conversation is necessary to understand my unique situation. Let’s talk.
Red🔴: Off the market myself, but LOVE facilitating connections for others. Here to play matchmaker and chaperone my friends.
What to wear?
Whatever you feel sexiest in. We mean it. Show up to show out.
Embodying Power & Pleasure: Deep Care for Women and Femmes of Color
What if self-care wasn’t just a routine but a radical act of reclaiming yourself? What if pleasure wasn’t something to earn but something you deserve, exactly as you are?
Join us for an exclusive, intimate evening in a lush, candlelit hideaway designed for liberation, joy and connection. Surrounded by deep red velvet, moody lighting, and a space that feels both private and powerful, you’ll step into a world where shame is released, and you’ll be fully seen and celebrated.
Led by Sex Educator, Irma Garcia, of Dirty South Sex Ed, this gathering is a space to let go of shame, connect with your desires, and explore pleasure on your own terms. This is a space of liberation, where we lay down the weight of respectability and pick up rest, power, and desire on our own terms. Come as you are. Leave feeling more at home in your body.
Fat4Fat Meet Cute
Find your next crush or bestie (or both!) amongst fellow fat4fat queer cuties at a February meet cute❣️
We’ll have flirty get-to-know-ya games, silly prizes, candy , & stickers to let folks know what you’re looking for 💘
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
DJ L Trendz
Spinning until 3:00 am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.
PONDER: A Listening Party
Join us for the official listening party of AJ Peoples’ PONDER.
“ My new project “PONDER” is releasing on 2/26 and I would love to see you at the listening party. This project is self-produced. Some tracks are just a soundscape without words, but it’s all honest. The venue has a lil sexy vibe to it, and they have a bar and happy hour. I’ll start playing the project around 7PM. Explaining my thoughts behind the songs. At 10PM the venue will have its own party if you want to stay but if not the world is yours. Tell a friend to tell a friend. Cheers “
- AJ PEOPLES
Trix and Mingle
Can you think of anything more Playjacent - and frankly big poly energy - than subverting alchohol with cereal? Niether could we.
Why not have delicious childish snacks at a social? Because it would be messy, you say? Shut up and eat your cereal!
(Playjacent* refers to spaces, events, or interactions that are adjacent to or related to play—creating an environment where playfulness, openness, and exploration are encouraged, but without play itself. Play typically refers to consensual, explorative interactions that prioritize connection, intimacy, and mutual enjoyment in a safe and respectful setting. Playjacent welcomes everyone, including those exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, or play spaces, but neither participation in nor identifying with ENM, polyamory, or play is required to attend or fully enjoy. The focus is on creating an inclusive, judgment-free space where attendees can connect, observe, or engage at their own pace, with no pressure or expectations.)
For future connective events, follow us @playjacent. For future play-space-including-events, follow us @lifeitselfevents. And for both, get on our mailing list: Https://bit.ly/lifeitselfsignup
Sattama Reggae Sundays
Wind it out with DJ Junior Keys and Lady Tia for our famous Sattama Reggae Sundays.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.
I Can Fix Him
Join us for a night of poetry and reflection hosted by India Rose Timpani.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.